I just wanted to add also that you are getting awesome advice from Puppy et al I was not the best DB'er in the world & sometimes I truly wish I had handled things differently - more along the lines of what they are telling you to do - I still feel I lost of a LOT of self respect during the whole D sitch & think if I had handled things differently I may not still be feeling that way, but then again if I had handled things differently, they may not have turned out the way they did, but . . . you know . . .
Keep up the good work, Time. You're doing really well & have the tools/knowledge on how to handle what's going on. He'll either come back around or you will be fine either way
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
I was not the best DB'er in the world & sometimes I truly wish I had handled things differently - more along the lines of what they are telling you to do - I still feel I lost of a LOT of self respect during the whole D sitch & think if I had handled things differently I may not still be feeling that way, but then again if I had handled things differently, they may not have turned out the way they did, but . . . you know . . . 
