still separated, in limbo, still hopeful

[newmama]

CW-thanks! I didn't even think of that happening- see? And I would have done the same thing! Thanks for giving me a tip "free of charge!" lol

So, How does one "explain" your sitch to dates? "Separated" seems to say "just want to get laid"! Can't say divorced or even divorcing. Married but maybe?

WN- well on my match.com profile when I'm ready to post it (when/if WH tells me he wants a D), it does say Separated and in the body I say "in process of divorce- been separated 13 months" I saw others that said this so I thought I would borrow the idea!

But the friend I am being set up with knows already. And I am not ready for a serious commitment- just company- so I would be dating mult guys but not sleeping with them- if I liked one well enough I guess we would discuss exclusivity. At least this is what I did before! but it was only a year of this before I met WH.I was busy doing other things and would go out with 2-3 gtuys- we'd see each other once/week or so. it was fun and no pressure.