Well, I was planning on doing that after one of us was totally out of the house so I didn't have to worry about 3 am crying phone calls from her, but yeah, I may go ahead and do that.
Crap, like I said, I guess I still don't know what I'm doing sometimes.
That is because you are SCARED to put the whole relationship on the line and you are fooling yourself into thinking that what you are now doing is tough and setting boundaries. It isn't.
Well, I just replied to her text and said No. I am not going to be talked to like that. Whatever it is that you need, you can figure it out on your own, to which she replied "i don't need help figuring anything out. nothing."
Well, I was planning on doing that after one of us was totally out of the house so I didn't have to worry about 3 am crying phone calls from her, but yeah, I may go ahead and do that.
I have seen my daughter take the changing her phone number to a new dimension. She gave me the idea... It has worked for her more times than I can count. I can't even keep up with what her new number is...
The guys ALWAYS come around though. She always talks to me and says "how did you learn all this stuff dad? It really works"....
Oh yeah, I'm not responding any more. I felt like I made it very clear that I'm done communicating with whoever this person/thing is on the other end.
Oh, you ARE communicating. Bet on that..
You are communicating that I will fight for you even if you have another man and say you don't want me and are not attracted to me. I will show you how low my self esteem is by fighting back and turning off your internet and hope that wins back your love and respect.
You have been getting "tested" since you discovered the affair.
The testing didn't just start since you cut off the internet. You are fooling yourself.
You are FAILING the main test.. THAT TEST is do you have the b*lls to give her the heave ho.. THAT is the test she is asking you. You are failing miserably at that. To allow a woman having an affair to text the things she just texted you and think by not responding that is showing toughness is only fooling yourself. PASSING the test is when a woman does NOT do or say or text those things. Passing the test is when you show her the door because you ARE strong and it is UNACECEPTABLE. End of conversation. This is nothing more than tit for tat childish games that isn't helping you as much as you think.
When you show her the door is when you will get your test results.
Gucci, you are being AWFULLY hard on our man CG here.
There's an old Polish proverb which says, "Sometimes a man must first walk with the gophers, before he can fly with the flying squirrels."
Every stance has its beginning in a strong first step. Lighten up.
