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Well, I just replied to her text and said No. I am not going to be talked to like that. Whatever it is that you need, you can figure it out on your own, to which she replied "i don't need help figuring anything out. nothing."

well, problem solved! she's figured it all out.

Well, I was just talking to some people up here about heading out with them to drink tonight. should be fun!

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3:00 a.m. Why so early?

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if she continues to text and leave voicemail on your cell,
hate to say it (because I hate to turn off my phones) but I think you should turn off your phone for a bit, like an hour or so just to give you a break, as much as you think you're ignoring it, that incessant ring tone or vibrate mode just keeps reminding you that she's a PITA, your brain needs a brake so you can focus at work.

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Originally Posted By: Confused Guy
Well, I just replied to her text and said No. I am not going to be talked to like that. Whatever it is that you need, you can figure it out on your own.


WHY WHY WHY WHY WHY WHY WHY!!!!!!!

do NOT reply! shut your phone off if you have to..you took the bait.

look at what she said to you and you text her back? come on!

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yeah, it's hard because I have people calling me about work issues all day and it's hard for me to turn my phone off. Of course I can just send out an email that my phone's messed up and call the office directly.

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slim pickins' after 3.

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Change your cell phone number....

Works like a charm...

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Really? bad move? I thought it made it clear that I'm not going to reduce myself to her childish level and tolerate her speaking to me like that and that she's on her own.

Crap, like I said, I guess I still don't know what I'm doing sometimes.

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slim pickins' after 3.


I could have sworn she didn't have a mustache last night when I brought her home... laugh

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So just ignore her or block her number for a bit. (you can do that with some phone carriers... and then take the block off)

Don't respond. she is testing you.


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