Not a bad idea, I mean, that's not really something I'm interested in wrapping myself up in right now, but I do know that the taste of their own medicine can make a difference.
Discipline requires that you do things that you don't want to do but you know you have to do to get the results you require.
Do you feel like going to work everyday? No but you need money.
and now this text message: "you are such a GD child that it's no f***ing wonder i can't find you attractive"
obviously she didn't censor.
Ahh, and I see that I'm ALREADY A WINNER!!! (ding! ding! ding!)
With God's Son (and my Main Man) Jesus as my witness, I did not see this before I just posted that last "she will test you" post.
What fun, eh CG? Look at it this way: there is COMFORT in knowing how PREDICTABLE they are. It adds an element of certainty to the malaise that is Betrayal.
Puppy
In fact pushing her buttons right now may be the way to go, you've been so lax, and non-confrontational, how about smiling at her and telling her "About that internet.... NOPE!" and smile when you say it and then asking speaking of which, when are you moving out? I'll bring over some boxes and help you pack, I would like to spruce up the place before I start bringing my new girlfriend over ;-)
haha, I do have to admit that it feels good and it's interesting seeing how she's responding to me pushing her buttons. She just sent me another text saying that she "needs me to answer". . .answer what? her attacking me? haha I think she's starting to crack.
and another attempted phone call. . .sheesh good god, she tried calling my office. I had them tell her I was in a meeting and now a text to call her ASAP. . .
You have been getting "tested" since you discovered the affair.
The testing didn't just start since you cut off the internet. You are fooling yourself.
You are FAILING the main test.. THAT TEST is do you have the b*lls to give her the heave ho.. THAT is the test she is asking you. You are failing miserably at that. To allow a woman having an affair to text the things she just texted you and think by not responding that is showing toughness is only fooling yourself. PASSING the test is when a woman does NOT do or say or text those things. Passing the test is when you show her the door because you ARE strong and it is UNACECEPTABLE. End of conversation. This is nothing more than tit for tat childish games that isn't helping you as much as you think.
When you show her the door is when you will get your test results.
