Moving on with my life #2

[S.T. _I Made It!]

that is great that you are putting baby first. I think that is necessary, and you are still doing things for yourself like taking time out for school so that you can have a future for you both, and that is also putting baby first in a way.

well, if it helps for you to get things out and vent here, that is perfectly fine...that is what this is here for anyways. we just want to make sure that it is not more than it should be and that your still moving forward.

I do think that your doing good and not getting emotional about H, and I agree, it would make me sick too to see those things on FB. Hopefully someday you can just move away from that place and meet lots of new people.

If you can, I think the next time exh comes around and acts like the good dad, you just keep your distance and keep those boundaries because otherwise, it's going to look like this... baby will get attached to her dad, then he'll be away, then back and forth again. So, if you can keep it more consistent, by not letting him just walk in whenever he wants, and be around a ton, so that the next time he will be gone, I think that will really help her in the long run.

I know this is really hard, so you just do the best you can do. you've done really good too. I couldn't imagine doing what your doing, you are a very strong woman.