I do seem to be all over the map, but finding the MLC site (midlifecrisismarriageadvocate) with things that are IDENTICAL to my sitch right now...
If you check, you'll see that I expressed that concern BEFORE you began posting over there, when you were waffling between the two approaches just over here).
It's not a criticism -- just an observation. It makes absolutely zero difference to me what you want to do, or where you want to post, so long as it's helping you. The MLC forum is a wise and caring community, and they help a ton of people. I just think you have to stop the passive-aggressive swings that are likely confusing your husband.
