- you are spending marital/family assets on it that is hurting the family financially;
Not spending any money (except once, $30)
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- it is leading you to initiate -- or being willing to reciprocate -- sex at a frequency that is less than what your spouse is desirous of;
She blames it for why we didn't have enough sex. In the last few weeks, it has been quite often (:
She has also said that she caught me in our first year but wouldn't confront me. I suspect that affected her enough that the LM environment for many of our years was toxic to me, which only made it worse, but that is the past and I've apologized, but I can't change it.
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- it has become addictive to the point where other things aren't getting done (time with the kids, QT with your spouse, other things that used to be of importance in your life); [
Yes - rarely, but it has. I'll have to consider how to accept responsibility and apologize - thanks Puppy~
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But when is it the same as having an affair? I would say only if you're having cybersex with OW/OM online.
Never could. I'm not sure if she even knows how in depth it could be to be afraid of it, but I never have. I guess it could've led there, so I'm glad to be getting pro help with it.
