Am I still handling this in the right way? Probably not.
I dunno. Sounds to me like you finally ARE.
Good job. Know, though, that you're going to be sorely tested before she takes you seriously. Those tests will begin immediately (sounds like they already have), and will take various -- even opposite -- forms. Your wife will swing wildly from bile/anger/venom, to sweet/respectful/nice, which will include trying to have sex with you to "tag" you and gain her control back. COUNT ON IT.
and now this text message: "you are such a GD child that it's no f***ing wonder i can't find you attractive"
obviously she didn't censor.
Ahh, and I see that I'm ALREADY A WINNER!!! (ding! ding! ding!)
With God's Son (and my Main Man) Jesus as my witness, I did not see this before I just posted that last "she will test you" post.
What fun, eh CG? Look at it this way: there is COMFORT in knowing how PREDICTABLE they are. It adds an element of certainty to the malaise that is Betrayal.
Well, there is no way I'm about to respond to her comments. I'm not going to get sucked into that. As much as I'd LOVE to tell her that she really shouldn't be talking about childish behavior or being ridiculous.
