I also just found the other day that MWD has a book called "Getting Through to the Man You Love." Never knew about this one. I haven't read it yet, but can only have good stuff that would be helpful, you know?

You can go to books.google.com & look it up & read the first couple of chapters.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10