Originally Posted By: Confused Guy
She's hounding me about the internet at home again, asking when I'm going to reconnect it. My brain is telling me to say something along the lines of "that's up to you. When you're ready to respect me enough to not be online talking to him in our house, it'll be back on." Of course, I know all she'll say is that it doesn't matter since we're done and obviously it will be a while before we're not in the same house together, so I can't leave it disconnected for weeks. So, do I just ignore her rebuttal or what? I know it's coming if I say anything other than I cave and will reconnect it.


Well is she replies "it doesn't matter since we're done" as you put it, then tell her "it doesn't matter when it gets reconnected so I don't think I will be reconnecting it, get your internet fix somewhere else."

Don't cave, and don't reconnect it.
If you need the internet badly, get yourself a laptop or a netbook (smaller laptop) and go somewhere you can get wireless access. Or.... just use your phone, get yourself an iPhone or a blackberry and do your surfing and emailing from there.

There now you have options and you didn't cave in on the internet, no excuses now.