Jas, can you please hop over to my thread? I am getting two conflicting pieces of advice from Fixer and Cat. And I know that you had said that you liked hearing from your H. So please if you get a chance I would like your input.

It's about the pool at our house (the one me and the kids are living in). So you know where to start to read. Jack could always use your input too.

Jack, I like your questions to Jas, I was also wondering about these things. But I do know that my H denied having depression and wouldn't believe me.


M 41
H 35
D 12
S 18
Separated 11/08