TF, just dropping by, but I was very excited when I glanced through your sitch. Especially at the invitation to the work event. I'm going through major trust issues too, WH says he wants to reconcile, but I really don't trust him anymore and keep questioning everything. Big difference though -- when WH is with me and talking to work people on his cell, he makes a big deal out of pointing out to them that he's with a great girl (me!) -- but he NEVER says it's his wife, wants them to believe I am some sort of new hot date! Your H wants to bring you guys -- in person -- to his work event. I think that's wonderful! Good luck
