Once again you glossed over SEVERAL posts chock full of guidance and went right back to your WAW and how victimized you are.
As many of us have tried to point out to you spouses that walk away and have affairs don't just "flip" and want to make things right in a matter of weeks. You knew better though.
You are not looking for solutions. If your mother can't take you to surgery tell her "no problem" and get to work finding a solution. If you have money to buy cigarettes then you have money to call a cab or car service. You have mentioned the bus. Call a friend or other family member for a lift. Call the agency that is paying for the surgery and let them know you have transportation issues. Perhaps if you weren't so OBSESSED with your wife you wouldn't be so busy *sighing* and might be able to figure out this very basic problem.
You are correct that your WAS will not stop talking to other men as long as you continue to participate in the way she dictates. Why would she stop? She gets money from your joint account, gets to talk to other men and have you as a fall back option. Not a bad gig if you can get it, no?
Lastly... GRATITUDE my man. Embrace it.
could not have said it better - focus on solutions to the problems, don't focus on the problems.
my word man - take control!
gman
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