you NEED this time to better yourself.. to get strong for what's to come.. Whether it be R with your W (where you'll need to stick to and continue DBing and not backslide too badly) or if your wife comes back and does take the initiative to get a D.. either way, there's a long road ahead that you'll need to be of sound mind for.
Patience is a b1tch, ain't it?
Hang in there..
M: 32 H: 34 S:5 D: 3 D: 1 Together 11 years Married 7 Bomb: PA/EA 8/13/09 (for 1 year on and off) ILYBINILWY: 08/09
"The end of suffering happens with the end of wanting." -Laura Munson