Another thing,

you NEED this time to better yourself.. to get strong for what's to come.. Whether it be R with your W (where you'll need to stick to and continue DBing and not backslide too badly) or if your wife comes back and does take the initiative to get a D.. either way, there's a long road ahead that you'll need to be of sound mind for.

Patience is a b1tch, ain't it?

Hang in there..


M: 32
H: 34
S:5
D: 3
D: 1
Together 11 years
Married 7
Bomb: PA/EA 8/13/09 (for 1 year on and off)
ILYBINILWY: 08/09

"The end of suffering happens with the end of wanting."
-Laura Munson