LOL yes you better remember it! and teach the rest of us too also lol! Wow, a guy you havent seen for a while wants to see you nekkid hehe, you must be doing something right.....uh is he dark and creepy lol!! wish you could see what i put on Kat's wall in the alt..........
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
I am on the alt. but I don't have access at work...this place should be banned too and I would get more done!
Jeffy not sure about the gay thing, but you and Mike could be on to something, who knows? The kid in high school with the dirtiest mind who made the most suggestive comments about girls? Turned out to be gay, came out once he was in college...ironically (or not, actually) one of the cheerleaders he dated came out around the same time, after she graduated and even got married!! And she was pretty promiscuous in high school so ya never know...
Oh well not gonna waste my day analyzing! Time to go play with some kids. One of my kdg girlies this morning is jealous of my purple fingernails...
it makes me feel a little bit stupid for thinking he actually wanted to spend time with me vs. texting me?
I wouldn't go down that road. Instead of assuming he's gay -- which I find unlikely since it's hardly an era when one has to be in the closet (particularly if unmarried -- and unmarried-and-34 isn't much of a red (pink?) flag) -- maybe he's just...tentative. Maybe he's not accustomed to women who are sort-of straight shooters (no pun intended but happily noted ) when it comes to sex. My Good Christian Man Friend wigged out a bit when his New Lady Love -- to whom he is (I hope) proposing this weekend (if he can screw his courage to the sticking place, as Lady Macbeth put it) -- actually told him during a heavy-petting session where she wanted his hands to go.
"Do they always do that?" he asked me querulously. (GCMF not exactly being a Playah, yo.)
"Only if you're really lucky!" I replied.
So maybe he's just sitting there on the other end of the text thinking...
What if she doesn't like me? What if she doesn't think I'm good-looking? What if something happens and it's no good? What if what if what if what if what if.......?
'Cause that's sort of the thing about (s)(t)exting, isn't it? I mean, that's why so many EA's begin electronically -- they're not "real" in that sense.
Just my "of course you're desirable so why don't you text me? LOL" 2-cents for the day.
I think if all cards are on the table here, I am not missing HIM as much as the experience...like after Dan left there was this vacuum when it came to male interactions and attention...
I miss the suggestive, flirty stuff. There wasn't much of it in the final three years, but enough to remember the really good times.
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As the years go by I guess I have become more vocal in the things that I like/want/need, and I don't want to ever pretend I'm not...
It is kind of interesting that he can say some pretty descriptive stuff via the ol' text message, but it is kind of consistent for him to back out on the face to face now that you mention it...
*Being too sick to get together for our first legit date (and backing out a mere 2 hours before kickoff, so to speak)
*Sitting as far on the end of the couch with me as possible for the whole 58 minutes or whatever that he showed up on movie night
*Backpedaling on actually scheduling another date while simultaneously having no trouble describing via text the things he would like to do to/with me?
And the other thing I noticed is that twice I have had to meet with him among other people since the whole naughty messaging stared. Prior to that if we were both at a meeting we may stand together and chit chat like normal people do...post-messaging he can barely look me in the eye when he sees me? At the school board meeting Monday night he pretty much stayed far away from me the whole time, barely met my eyes when relaying some speech info, etc.....I went home and an hour later he was texting and chatting about my day like a different guy?
OK Jeff I promised I wouldn't analzye again but I think I'll just decide that my awesomeness frightens him...wow maybe I am Sue Sylvester...
wish you could see what i put on Kat's wall in the alt.......... 
