Few questions I'd like opinions on: 1. I really think these lunches are great together. If occasionally I found a reason for us to lunch together, do you think there is any harm in that? He seems to want to stay around me, and he's always away from me "living his life," so maybe it's a good thing? - or is it better that he wonders what I'm up to and is able to do his own thing entirely without any jogging of how much fun we have together?