CTH,

You obviously know you sitch and W better than any of us so follow your instincts. The best advice I can give you based on my experience is to have a game plan going in and remain cool, calm and collected to the best of your ability throughout the sessions. It will be challenging at times.

My settlement really couldn't have gone any better for me than it did. I really believe it had more to do with my W just wanting to get it over with quickly and put me in her review mirror as fast as possible.

She probably new I would make a lot of noise about CS and SS should she have opted to go for it. I know she was confident that she would find a good position that paid well and has been in full court press on getting another man who I assume she figures will help her financially as well. She has thus far executed that plan. Which is good for me.

Your W appears to have a different game plan than mine. Good luck on getting the best deal you can. I'll likely be shifting over to your new forum home once my M is toast. Thanks for checking in.


M48/W47
M15/T22
S3
D3
In House Separation 10/06/09
W files for D 10/16/09
OM1 discovered 10/28/09 (PA)
OM2 in mix early Jan.
W moved out 1/26/10
In Mediation (Settlement in prep)