Should I Tell Her to Move On???

[Ken62]

Hey gr8,

Just wanted to say that I agree to NOT bring up the agreement with your W. I believe in what Greek had to say.

I also wanted to thank you for starting the new thread because I did choose to do just that because I was tired of being treated likea "gay boyfriend" by my W while she is having her EA turned PA before the D is final. Haven't heard anything from her since sending the text and don't know if I will and thatis fine because I believe that she is seriously messed up and does not see that she is doing anything wrong.

I know you love your W and that it is hard to be patient but if there is no A then I think you at least have a better chance than I do at this point. I'm moving on because I deserve better and I believe my kids think that I deserve better and I'm going to start living for me. If W came around I don't know what I would do at that point but I would definitely come to this board and ask for advice instead of doing anything stupid, so my advice to you is to keep coming here when things get tough. Journal here, vent here and I wish you the best of luck.