I got this from my now-Ex: At the time of the bomb, she said we had not been married in her mind for a very long time -- months at least, years even -- and implying she was under no obligation whatsoever to even let me know she had come to such a decision, let alone give me a say in that matter.
It was a constantly running theme with her following the bomb. She alone could unilaterally decide that the M had already ended -- the Law, God and society be d*mned -- and without even saying anything to me. Batchit crazy thinking.
There were lots of insane corollaries that spun off that one, which I won't go into right now (I could fill a book.)
My unvoiced retort to that was that one could unilaterally decide they are M'ed and D'ed any number of times without making it known openly. Thus xW could have entered into M and D over and over with any number of men all during the course of the 17+ years we were together, under such terms.
Again, she has continually proven herself to be batchit insane.
