Wow, there's so much confusion! He doesn't know what he wants, you don't know what he wants. . . but you're hanging out together. I don't even know what to think, really!
Option 1 (here's the analyzer in me): He is cake-eating. He just wants to be friends and doesn't want to be the "bad guy." And he thinks that's the road the two of you are taking.
Option 2: He's on his way back. And you should be attractive and positive if you want him back. But cautious.
I don't know if there are any more options. . .
But I guess I think this. If it is option 2, I would up my requirements of him for reconciliation. In a private journal (or here!) think of what you want from him in order to feel like you are back together. For me, it's about a year of MC. Really. I need the time to rebuild trust. And I think it sets the foundation for a more solid relationship in the future.
I guess I also think you should define your boundaries. Is it okay with you if he is cake eating now with the possibility of actually coming back later? If it's not, then it's got to be clear.
This is really hard, BD! You ultimately know what's best for you guys, but these are some initial thoughts I have.
me, 30 WH, 29 D born June 2010 M: July 2001 Bomb/S: 1/14/10 Done with it all.
