I guess WH can carry on like this because 1) he was not, or, ii) is not as capable of -- investing emotionally in the relationship with me?
And as far as the kids go, as far I can tell from what he says, he thinks he's got 100% the same relationship with them as he always had and so there is nothing to worry about (how can he think that when they've suffered so much and everything in their life changed and their dad lives in another city, time, and headspace?!)
Is this weird...
I told WH that the kids were sad about loosing their old friends, especially the younger one because those families just dropped her socially when we got separated. Very nice intact families, like we were some kind of plague to be avoided. WH took her to a neighbours house yesterday and created a playdate for my weekend, and announced that she has no problems with friends. Is this weird?
