mza,
Thanks for the insightful, detailed oriented post.

Over the past week my W's trip has been on my mind and causing me to think the worst. On top of that I see Britt's post on success and though I am happy to see things work out for her, I get frustrated b/c we have been at this much longer than some folks here and they are the ones reconciling.

It's like when your fishing for hours upon hours and don't get a bite, then some kids comes up casts right next to you and pulls in a fish.

I want nothing more then to be with my W.

Thank you for reminding me about greeks post, it doe seem to fit my situation right now in the process. When W knew she needed to move out she did so. Now when she thinks she needs to have an agreement in place she's not so sure about that.

Two days ago I was sure Iwas going to say something about the agreement to my W, but now I'm not too sure if that would be the best thing AT THIS TIME.

That's why I started the new post for the Veterans about the turning point. It's does seem that when the LBS finally says to the WAS that they are ready to move on that's when things start to change.

I just feel that my current sitch isn't moveing either way.

I will take a few days to calm my emotions and make a rational decision when the time comes.
Tomorrows phone session can't get here fast enough.

Thanks again for the post it inspired me today to remain patience.

Sometimes all we need is a nice post from a fellow DBer.

TTYS


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