I know this is not what any of us wants to hear, but there are a couple of good books out there about parenting kids through D. Even if it doesn't end up happening all the way, I'm sure it will help with some of these concerns in the "limbo" phase.
I plan to get one or both of these soon. I read some of the first in a bookstore and it was very dense but had really good info including research stats on kids and divorce- what makes them do better or worse, etc.
I like FM's response, SR. While you're not seeing DD this weekend, maybe you can print out some photos for the scrapbook so you're ready to work on it when you see her next week :-).
When the men on the chessboard Get up and tell you where to go; And you've just had some kind of mushroom And your mind is moving slow; Go ask Alice... I think she'll know.
