Fixer,

I give you so much credit for hanging in there as long as you have. To be honest, I wish my H didn't leave now. I wish I knew what was easier as far as working on a M. If they stay under one roof or if they leave.

H started fighting like I said for about a week before he left, and would push and push me until I would say for him to get out, because he was fighting with the kids too.

He said he wasn't going any where so I really didn't believe he would go, but then the big fight hit and he was gone. I really believe that his step-mother told him he could stay there so he started a huge fight a couple of days before he left.

What I wouldn't do for H to hold my hand or something. But then again we had relations in Nov and March and still nothing as far as working on our M.

Hang in there, I think it sounds a little like your W is starting to come out of the fog. Heck, you've hung in there this long!


M 41
H 35
D 12
S 18
Separated 11/08