Time for darkness.... (thread number 3)ears open

[james217]

You didn't answer my question (and "you're welcome," btw).

Why do you suppose I haven't responded to you? Me, a guy who's verbose, snarky, a bit of a know-it-all, who LOVES to respond to posts???

Why?? Do you think I didn't WANT to? Do you think maybe it was HARD for me?

Puppy

well you told me 48 hours of NC and i didn't do it? Disappointed and frustration?

Stubbron and defensive?

Too many threads? Stubborness? Is this supposed to help me understand why WAW isn't purseuing either?

It was to demonstrate to you, in action, the concept of laying out a "Boundary of Personal Integrity," and sticking to it. To use your HEAD (logic, rational thought) to create it, and not let your HEART (emotions, fears) drive your daily behavior.

You just DO it.

Now -- (((poof!))) -- I'm dark. 48 hours, dude -- no contact with your wife. I'll be back, cuz I know you can do it. And don't ask me all the "WHYs" associated with it, because they've all been answered by everyone else -- handfuls of times -- in your upthreads.

Good luck.

Puppy

lol like clockwork as soon as you go NC on me WAW calls. I did not answer though.

i guess she needs time to clear her head and work on things for herself. I'm trying to do the same.

She told me before how hard it is not to call or text me and she's feelinghurt guilt love and missing me so I'll chill out and just do the 48 hours again.