Originally Posted By: Mila
SCH, this is what we wanted all along...them being interested and wanting to work things out. But when that possibility is actually here, everything seems even more complicated then before. You don't know what's true, what's wishful thinking, what can you trust and what decisions to make.


Mila, yes, I totally hear that.

We are going through some similar things, on a sort of similar time scale.

But the thing is, it really did get so complicated, didn't it? When did that happen? And, I don't want to go back to what WAS in the last couple of years, no matter what, and I don't know how to determine if that's what I'm setting myself up for. So it's very push/pull. You made your H chicken soup, which was so thoughtful and nice. The most I've been able to make for him is a cup of tea, and then I left the house so I wouldn't have to drink one with him (well, had to pick up teenager from his friends house, but even so!!).