TF,
Question....your husband has not come out and said "I want to work on it" or "Let's go to counseling" or anything like that has he?

The reason I ask is that my W has not said anything either but her actions are speaking pretty loud, but I still want to hear it.

Formerly "missherlove"

Me49 XW49
M17 T19
S16 D20

Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.

~Jim Morrison