H is dealing with alot of issues. I think he is depressed though. He has almost admitted it on a couple of occassions. However, he is extremely stubborn and won't get help (counsling/medication). This Is a sign of weakness to him and he is w man. Ridiculous I know. He complains of a lump in his throat which his mom said is from anxiety and or depression. Probably both.
His dad being so sick and then dying was VERY devastating to him. He wouldn't talk about it and he repressed it. To make matters worse I didn't validate how he was feeling. I feel like such an idiot now. So stupid. His dad was his leader and kept him on track and they talked about alot.
I asked the h if he felt like he needed someone to tell him what to do and he said "yes". He said feels like he is wandering around and doesn't know what to do. So weird and complicated.
M 35, husband 35 M 10 Limbo 9/2009-12/2010 he left for his moms and came home way to many times to count Home 12/2010-present
