Yeah, she's uncomfortable with the fact that she's gone behind my W's back to discuss everything with me. She knows how much that would damage their relationship. She's said that if my W ever opened the door to talk about it, that she'd get involved, but until then, she's just not going to risk her relationship with her daughter. And I have to respect that. She said it's just unfortunate that my W won't come to her to talk about everything, but she's pretty sure that she hasn't because she knows that what she's doing is irrational, childish and not right and she doesn't want to hear her mom's honest opinion so she's avoiding it.
That's the dumbest thing I've ever heard.
"I spoke to Confused Guy because we're both concerned about you, and love you very much."
End of story.
She's not alone; sadly our country is FILLED with parents like this these days. They think they're being "fair," to "not get involved." Meanwhile, Rome burns.
