Yeah, she's uncomfortable with the fact that she's gone behind my W's back to discuss everything with me. She knows how much that would damage their relationship. She's said that if my W ever opened the door to talk about it, that she'd get involved, but until then, she's just not going to risk her relationship with her daughter. And I have to respect that. She said it's just unfortunate that my W won't come to her to talk about everything, but she's pretty sure that she hasn't because she knows that what she's doing is irrational, childish and not right and she doesn't want to hear her mom's honest opinion so she's avoiding it.
