I do agree and appreciate the comment about telling her that I'm not playing these games with her anymore. I just know that how hard this bed situation is. I mean, I don't want to yell and scream, obviously, at her that she can't sleep in our bed because that's not controlling myself or the situation, but if she's going to be adamant that she's sleeping in there too, is there a solution where I don't come off as giving in or overreacting and making myself look bad?
OMG, you're like a chick, I swear (sorry, ladies). REAL MEN don't obsess about this stuff. Your stance should be "I'm comfortable here. If you want to sleep here too, knock yourself out." That's it.
Good lord, you're obsessing over every little detail.
