Originally Posted By: philsbs
When or how do you get to a point were you feel that life is worth living again? I just can't seem to shake this hopeless, worthless feeling.


Get to a bookstore and find a copy of that Susan Anderson book, The Journey From Abandonment To healing. I think you will find it eye-opening, having what you are going through spelled out for you.

You are in the shattering phase; these emotions are understandable and natural.

If you really start to feel down, get some personal counseling or look into getting a prescription for anti-depressants. Just because she may be trying to deal with things on her own doesn't mean you need to.


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."