I am pretty sure my h is suffering from depression or mil. His father (best friend and leader of the pack) passed away almost three years ago. My h has been on a downward spiral since his dad got sick. It is actually a very long horrible story and my h is on a destructive path and has no self esteem.
This sounds like midlife crisis behavior. There are a bunch of good people over in the Midlife Crisis forum who can help you out.
The bad news is, if he is having an MLC then there is pretty much nothing you can do to "snap him out of it". Your only real choices are to stick by him and ride it out or leave.
An MLC is a very real emotional struggle for him; he is dealing with all sorts of repressed issues. This is a good starting point to begin to read up on what he's dealing with.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
