My db coach said I should leave my mil out of it. I am pretty sure my h is suffering from depression or mil. His father (best friend and leader of the pack) passed away almost three years ago. My h has been on a downward spiral since his dad got sick. It is actually a very long horrible story and my h is on a destructive path and has no self esteem. I could go on and on. My db coach does think he is self medicating. Db coach also thinks I should let him have his "safe" place at his moms. Really if he isn't going to be at our house his moms is the best place for him.
His mom thinks he is unhappy in his m. She does also think he is depressed, she is a nurse.
M 35, husband 35 M 10 Limbo 9/2009-12/2010 he left for his moms and came home way to many times to count Home 12/2010-present
