is my WAH in an MLC (need some experts!)?

[TrentC]

I would say that you should keep working with the DB coach. I've had two different coaches and they were both wonderful. (In fact, I have one session left! I need to schedule it soon.)

FIB, thank you for your comments. My PMA is pretty much shot this morning, as I came across a picture of my wife and I having our first kiss; I had forgotten that picture even existed. I have to remind myself that this is a process that we both need to work out on our own. Someday I may be able to share that picture with her again.

Pandora: it may seem like a macabre suggestion, but one thing you may consider is starting a list of things you need to take care of if the D papers get filed. It will give you some feeling of control over your situation; I know that I will be an emotional wreck if that happens and I want to make sure that I don't forget or miss anything important during that time.