Well then prepare yourself for that.

Show her you aren't passive and man up..

Sorry to be so blunt, but if you're anything like me, you probably need to be spoken to like this in order to make you understand.

She is totally disrespecting you in YOUR house.

If she wants to talk to the OM, then tell her to get out..plain and simple. you will not have her disrespect you under your own roof.

M: 32
H: 34
S:5
D: 3
D: 1
Together 11 years
Married 7
Bomb: PA/EA 8/13/09 (for 1 year on and off)
ILYBINILWY: 08/09

"The end of suffering happens with the end of wanting."
-Laura Munson