like I've said before, at night, she would always show up in our bedroom so that she could sleep in our bed. Lately, when she's asked me to rub something, I've declined, or when she's tried to put her leg or hand on me, I've moved. But, have I been doing the right thing by not giving up the bed and going to the couch or whereever else? I mean, should I keep standing my ground by saying I'm not leaving our bed, you're not getting anything out of it other than a nice bed, but you're not going to push me out of our room and bed? Or should I not give her that feeling that I'm just happy to have her in the same bed and she's winning because I let her come sleep in there, and go take the other bed or couch?
