I don't think his mom knows of the a. My mil is widowed recently and I think she just wants what is best for her son. Plus I think she likes the company snd she can get him to do stuff around the house. I call her house an all inclusive resort . I guarantee she Is doing his laundry and cooking for him too.
I think If she knew of the a she wouldn't be happy with him at all and would be upset. She loves me!
The ow is definately in the party/friend stage of her life. My h even admitted that back in nov to some friend on facebook. But he apparently decided she is worth still chasing. He has left and come home multiple times. Each time because I either was blocking her number or trying to call her (I know childish).
M 35, husband 35 M 10 Limbo 9/2009-12/2010 he left for his moms and came home way to many times to count Home 12/2010-present