We have both grown so independent and see each other as independent that we have not been taking care of each other.
To Soleil,
The communication breakdown has been gradual over about four years. Her working on the road, me working evenings have decreased phone calls in the week to being a rare occurance. On the weekends, fatique, chores, and mainly lack of planning and communication have taken most of the fun of being together lately.
This sounds so much like my sitch, it isn't even funny. We could spend days without a phone call. In MC he told me he feels "fake" calling me each day to ask how I am. WTH?
2Blu, at least you took time to findally realize something was wrong and wanted to DO something about it.
Have you seen a L regarding all the refi stuff? I think it's a good idea to.
