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so....as most of you know i hang around and comment on peoples situations and try to give support to those who need it (kind of paying it forward for all those who have helped me) - starting to think i might need a break from posting for a while...wondering if reading soooo many people's threads about A's is keeping me from getting past my W's

kind of like keeping it at the surface....does this make sense?

anywho, just wondering peoples thoughts on this....


I know exactly what you're talking about. Sometimes I think hanging out here holds back my healing too. Although I love giving back to this board after all the support it's given me, I may eventually have to say goodbye to it, at least for a while.

Regarding your situation, this is why moving away after an A can be such a good thing. Might be painful uprooting the family, but can you imagine how good it would feel getting a fresh start away from OM and these other people that know what happened? Knowing your W isn't going to run into OM at any time?