The problem I think in my mind is that because we have no agreement, legal or otherwise, I don't have any position to set a boundary. Boundaries sound like things that I can enforce, but she has a very bad attitude.
Peabody, you don't need any agreements in place to set boundaries!
You are a HUMAN BEING -- created by God, and deserving of a certain amount of common decency and respect in your life. From strangers, from acquaintances, from friends and family, and especially from your own wife. LOVE is a choice -- you can't MAKE her love you. But how you allow others in your life to treat you, is completely up to YOU.
Would you allow the mailman to treat you this way? You don't have any legal agreement with him. Friends?? Why do you allow your wife to?
