Stop second-guessing yourself aver . Take action and don't internalize his reactions. You did the right thing and you did it in a respectful way. He's talking about "coaching" because he's not prepared for you to assert yourself and is trying to explain it to himself as outside influences.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.