Then, a little bit later, she said, "we can stay married.".
Like she is doing you a favor???!!!! This is the thing you have to beat. They get to thinking they have options and you will be there for them no matter what. This chick is such a button pusher. Stand your ground. Try harder to resist getting sucked into tit for tat arguments. She pokes and prods looking to see how she can get under your skin.
+1 about what Puppy said on the cell phone stuff. You slapped down the internet issue so now she is looking for another boundry to test. What are you going to do? Do not tolerate this...Wife, talking to OM on cell phone in my house is incredibly disrespectful to me and our marriage. If you choose to talk to OM, please leave. The choice (and use the word choice) is yours. You want to frame it that way so she can't throw the "you're trying to control me" BS in your face. That's coming next.
Me 44 She 46 S13 D9 M18 T23 3 years DB'ing Successfully busted
