I am worried that she is just going through the motions, but I don't really know to find that out without trying... You know?
The thing that confuses me is that so many smart people on this site seem to think the ONLY way to get a WAW to return is when they realize that they have lose the LBS.
I've been trying to get that into my sitch. I wanted her to think I was done and walking away.
But now, I need to let her know that I do not want the divorce and am still working on the things that ruined us?
Maybe its not so black and white. Maybe I could talk to her about how I am doing these things for any future relationship...
Gonna have to think on this. Need to figure out how to say this to her without basically saying "I'm still waiting for you"...
