remember not to believe anything she says. and also, don't think for a minute that the OW isn't probably thinking to himself "holy sheet, I'm getting involved with this looney? "
This is a GREAT point, THA. Because affairs thrive on romance, mystique and secrecy, your goal is to remove all that, and make them deal with the mundane things.
Is there anyone in OP's life to whom you can expose this?
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