still separated, in limbo, still hopeful

[WhatNow]

both Helen Fisher and Daniel Amen have studied the brain stuff for awhile. Short of reprinting their books here, I will say they have used brain scans, and MRIs, college students, and animals (monogamous and non) and the research seems legit. I recommend their books...good stuff to know in this transition we are all passing through.

nm, you are my hero! I have days at a time where I am empowered to live the single life (doing "his" chores around the house that involve the drill and hammer!) but actually "going out" seems like so much work. And then I have days where I want to bail on the whole thing.

So, How does one "explain" your sitch to dates? "Separated" seems to say "just want to get laid"! Can't say divorced or even divorcing. Married but maybe?




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