Tal, I only have a minute. I totally get it re: being friends after D. I gave BF a similar speech to Gardener's (but not as nice).

However, I wonder if in your sitch it may be better to take a slightly different approach. Just read a recent post by Gucci suggesting to agree to be friends because the M isn't going to work. You agree to everything WAS says then treat him as a casual friend who you don't have time for. Can't remember which thread but worth a search.

Sending hugs. Will be home Sunday & have more time then.

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