W says it isn't that she isn't about looks or love that was the problem with our relationship. It was that we just lost our emotional connection. I couldn't agree more. Everything began to suffer once we started accumulating stress in our relationship. Over the past 3 years it's just got progressively worse as our stress levels with jobs, money and house became overwhelming. We always had a decent sex life, but our quality time basically diminished to nothing. Even when we tried to do fun things together, we just weren't ourselves and it just didn't feel right. I just don't know if that kind of connection is sustainable when their is real life surrounding you. I feel so much more at ease around her now and can talk to her like her friend when their is no other stresses between us.
