She Say's She Want's Out Of The Marriage

[tbart01]

I hear everything you're saying. For the record these changes are for me, and I like the way I am now.

She's staying at her girlfriends house and she left 10 minutes after dropping me off. She claims she needs a break and is just worn out. She plans to stay away from home for two weeks. She calls everyday, and only comes over to see the girls after she asks me. I won't stop her from seeing them.

A far as the previous behavior that I said I displayed. Some of it I should have avoided, but the majority of it is completely opposite of what she was expecting.

Know it's killing her that I'm not the way she assumed I was going to be. My D14 described to me how my W said I was going to come home and act. I have yet to do or be any of it. This picture she painted in her mind of how I would be is now void.

I'm at the house alone taking care of my daughters, which is something that for some reason she didn't think I could do. I'm maintaining my composure and my control.

Does the WAW sort of pass a point of no return in there mind? The way she expected t be and act has already backfired. You can tell she wants to come home, but she can't or wont. She doesn't sleep and her stomach is a wreck. All things that she's causing to herself.

Everyone we know is confused at her actions, and angry as well. Do I call her out on walking out on her family? Where do I draw the line on what I can question or call her on? Others have asked her if she has someone else, do I ask?